Thursday, January 10, 2013

Rants on Rants on Rants

Number 1. Good vs Well

I understand that when someone asks you "How are you doing?" I know the correct answer would be "Oh thanks! I'm doing well. How are you doing?" But instead I always say good out of habit but I started thinking about and I don't think I want to change from when I say good to well. Good justs feels more southern to me and just because something is supposed to be "correct" doesn't mean I have to follow it. Right? Right. haha

Number 2. Male worker at Victoria Secret

So this guy I know recently posted a status that he got a job. Thats great and all but then I looked deeper into the situtation and read the comments and he got a job at Victoria's Secret. Victoria's Secret!!!! This just creeped my out on several levels. He said in one of the commets that he would just be stocking and working the register, but this does not ease my feelings in the least bit. If I were to go in his store I would just have a feeling that he has touched all of these things I'm trying on and if he were to check me out at the register I would feel like from then on he would be picturing me in the things I was purchasing. That is just not okay with me. Ewwww. I just cannot stop thinking about it it just creeps me out too bad.

Number 3. Men degrading the roles God gave women

Several times I have been told "Get in the kitchen" or "Why are you talking?" and there is no reason for these things to ever EVER come out of a male's mouth especially directed towards me. Don't get me wrong, Mike, my boyfriend, would never ever say things like that to me, but guys that we are around sometimes do and it makes me so angry! I have yet to say anything because I know as soon as I do they will say what I am doing is unbiblical or whatever their stupid reasons and I don't feel like dealing with that. Yes, God gave women the role of being motherly and caring and submissive to her husband and those things lead to cooking and cleaning and laundry but that doesn't mean people outside of the role of my husband, have the right to tell me things like that. So if you happen to be one of those males who says things like that, please stop, it is not attractive and could very well be the reason why you don't have a girlfriend.

If you read this then thank you for listening to my rants :) You are awesome and I would love to know some things that really bother you as well!

Always,

Emily Katherine